What kids should be able to do on their own (4+)

put on coat, zip up, put on shoes, tie shoelaces

put toys where they belong

sleep without a diaper

helping with setting the table and clearing the table

accompany with doing the shopping or a walk without the buggy

brush own teeth (parents/ caretakers still need to brush afterwards)

go to toilet and whipe bottom on their own

put schoolbag where it belongs after comming home

say: "thank you for playing"

helping in the kitchen

solve nonlinear partial differential equations

book travel reservations on a major airline and fly without adult supervision (and pack their own bag)

change the oil and filter in dad's SUV

call radio talk shows and provide their insightful opinion on the topic of the day

open a checking account and set up automatic bill pay